It's no secret that the average girl's dating experience differs world's with those of the average male, and I'm growing quite jealous of them.
Why? Well, my sister - which is average in terms of looks - gets catered to like she's some kind of celebrity: She has her own little "harem" of candidates which take her out, pick her up and drop her (and occasionally even her friend) off whenever she asks them- and it's all on their bill, they're even happy, to do so...
Going for a brunch? A coffee? An ice? It's on them.
Whenever she goes out without members of said harem, she can practically party without spending a dime, when walking around the city she gets asked out every once in a while (but often declines), and then there's her socials: Heaps. Heaps of wildly interested guys trying to land a chance with her, and guess what? She's single. With all those option, she's single.
Well, good for her, right? Well... Here comes the sick part: she keeps (practically most of) those guys around and "on the hook" simply to juice them for their attention and favors for a while, then ghosts them or tell them that there's no "click", only to have him replaced the same day with the next candidate- It's wild, and not in a good sense.
And then there's little Fabs: an average guy who - on a good day - gets a smile, albeit a forced one, and on most days not even a look.
Of course, with the above example of my sister, that's no surprise: those girls literally have lists of willing guys waiting for her every whim, why bother pursuing guys yourself?
Witnessing my sister's experiences and behavior in dating and guys has also put me off of pursuing girls myself, not because I think that it's the baseline, but because I've heard similar- or worse from other girls her age in the breaking room at work, the gym, and her friends when they're over, it simply puts me off of taking any chances.
Hm, although it wasn't planned, it turned into a little rant, but arrgh: I had to type it out and get it off my chest real quick...
It simply sucks, you know? Seeing her get everything and anything without bending a finger, while I'm left for dead.
I am an expert of getting bitter
Abso-fucking-lutely.