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🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣 Yeah buddy, you come over to the Netherlands and find a place to build something up, it's not gonna happen without taking up debt for 40+ years.
Get out of the Netherlands
As if there's anywhere in the western world where women haven't been weaponized in this way...
Stay where you're at kid, and focus on money and health.
No need to even stay in the western world - rest of the world is a big place.
But if he does stay, Eastern Europe is better than Western in terms of dating and cost of living.
regardless, living at home with your parents will only get you so far with the ladies
True, but that's the best bet for now.
fair, but moving out even if renting is a difference existence
you'll get there!
in the meantime you can relate
you do not need to mate
relationships come in all kinds of forms and evolve in life
hang out with people
learn about yourself
improve yourself
everything will come to you over time
as you iterate yourself each day
and not be focused on specific outcomes
Eastern Europe's actually in the cards...
Not a bad option especially Poland and Ukraine
Oh yeah! Polish girls are beautiful.
Ukraine also
Huh. I was reading this and thought to myself, 'Man, being in the USA really must suck!' I never expected you to be from the Netherlands.
As a fellow Dutchie, I'm really surprised by this. I'm older now (>35 years), but I had a very different experience between the ages of 14 and 23 (when I met my wife). It was always easy to get a date, and we were treated as equals, either treating each other or splitting bills (going Dutch). Is there a difference between big cities and small towns? I'm from a small town myself.
There will be a difference, albeit one that's getting smaller.
You're >35, I've just turned 25, which means that there's a solid 10-year-gap between us; I think social media and general brain rot (leftism and equality BS) wasn't as bad as it is today "back then", but oh well: I'll see when I ask a few girls if they'd like to get to know me. 🙂
step three: get your own place