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Just like the title says. My friends/colleagues overwhelmingly think that Bitcoin is a joke. Like a digital pet rock... if not a scam + outright waste of time. Some of the 'smarter' ones are starting to maybe think there's something there... But in the absolute most basic of ways and they have zero idea how Bitcoin works.
When I talk about something called "Lightning" (and explain its purpose) my friends just kinda laugh... and say they aren't into "crypto". They roll their eyes (even though they are my friends) and I'm like the crazy Bitcoin person.
Even the smarter ones know precisely zero about Bitcoin - their knowledge of Bitcoin is limited to hearing about 'Dogecoin' and a multitude of scams. "The scams." The "cryptos." One of my coworkers said to me yesterday (reasonably well educated middle class guy) "wait aren't there lots of Bitcoins? I don't understand all the different coins. It's so confusing?"
People, the general public, here in the US know that Bitcoin is expensive... but they have no idea how expensive, why it's valuable, or even the most basic ways to use it. They have zero idea what a "wallet" is or its function.
Transactions fees, a 'mempool', seed phrases... I might as well be speaking some imaginary "eye-roll" language.
I've mentioned tipping "with a Lightning wallet" or "Lightning App" to cab drivers... Uber drivers... tradespeople... PLUS my own coworkers.
And all of them have no FUCKING IDEA what I'm talking about.
In "OUR" universe Lightning exists. You swap in and out on-chain... pay for fries, maybe even tip other Stackers...
But in the 'normie' world Lightning does NOT exist.
It's like Satoshi died in the womb and the Whitepaper was never written.
2 Separate Timelines.
2 separate Universes.
The "Bitcoin" one and the Non-Bitcoin... apparent in the vast majority of the world.
And any question or suggestion of "paying in Bitcoin" immediately makes it clear...
That people think you have to buy a whole Bitcoin because the idea of getting "paid in Bitcoin" implies some "huge amount of money". For what it makes no sense?
A tip? How???
Say you drive someone 2 city blocks... and "the tip" is some Bitcoin. People seem to think that implies some weird, strange, "huge" amount of money that they don't know how to accept anyway. "Because it's a Bitcoin". Because Bitcoin isn't divisible? And Lightning doesn't exist?
It's fucking dangerous. If people think you're giving them "a Bitcoin" "something valuable" that they don't understand...
It's like looking up in the 16th century and seeing a JumboJet flying high in the sky.
Your eyes see it.
But you brain cannot comprehend it... because there's such a disconnect...
That's what trying to use, and advocate for, Bitcoin is like in the real world.

I was in San Fransisco a few weeks ago. Nice areas, not so nice areas... a bar, a comic book store, a local grocery...
How many signs did I see for people to accept Bitcoin (or any cryptocurrency for that matter?)
Zero.
The same exact thing in LA.
Los Angeles... Millions of people... Tens of thousands of businesses. And it's like Bitcoin doesn't exist.
Even in Los Angeles BTC Map is scarce... and I mean SCARCE on places to spend Bitcoin it's just bizarre.
I believe in Bitcoin long-term I really do.
I believe that eventually everyone will use it - Lightning especially. Fast, immediate, sound money that's "secure enough" for daily purchases and transactions... everyone will want it and businesses will want to accept it because its use case is overwhelming.
But there are still 2 universes: the one where Bitcoin exists and the one where it does not.
And right now it's still very confusing and even dangerous straddling the both of them. The '2 worlds'... the Bitcoin and non-Bitcoin one, aren't ready to be one and there is a tremendous amount of confusion and 'misunderstanding' when those worlds occasionally interact.
I believe that things will eventually improve... but it will take a tremendous amount of work and a very long time.
I hope that Bitcoin is successful in the long run.
137 sats \ 3 replies \ @Scoresby 13h
Most people do not see the usefulness of it. Visa/bank cards/payment apps work well enough for them. Places like Steak and Shake can start accepting bitcoin and that's fun, but after the initial burst of activity, I'd wager they have very very low numbers of bitcoin transactions. Ideological adoption is only gonna get us so far.
I'm hopeful that some payments use-cases are emerging that are so obviously the easiest way to do a thing that people start using bitcoin without actually caring that they are using bitcoin.
People who run webstores might like it because no charge-backs, no fees, and no borders, but you still have to run something like BTC Payserver and your own node and maybe manage channels...but they still need to be pretty motivated to get it done.
People who have OnlyFans and have a hard time keeping tradfi accounts open might like it because they are in a sector that banking really doesn't like, but how many of their fans are able and willing to pay in bitcoin?
AI stuff is also promising because it's really frustrating to get into a subscription when all you want to do is use the product for a specific project. And then there's agents that might need the ability to spend money themselves. Bitcoin is well suited for this.
I'm sure there are more such cases. But I doubt adoption at the local coffee shop as anything more than a publicity stunt for a long while yet.
And for the wider world, the thing that brings bitcoin to mind is number go up. They don't think they need it and most people are never going to spend very much time learning why they do need it. But when the price goes up, they FOMO.
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152 sats \ 2 replies \ @fiatbad 3h
Ideological adoption is only gonna get us so far
Cory Klippsten said something on a podcast a few years back that always stuck with me. Something about how historical revolutions only needed 10% of the population onboard in order to enact complete societal change.
So, I disagree when you say ideological adoption is only gonna get us so far. I think idealogical adoption can take us all the way. The problem is, most Bitcoiners are still too comfortable using and thinking in fiat terms, while using Bitcoin only as an investment vehicle. And I'm not talking about the short-term traders using Coinbase. I'm talking "hard-core" Bitcoiners who have read all the books and really understand the stakes. They aren't pushing very hard to end fiat. They keep talking about Trojan horses and Gresham's law... while comfortably using fiat.
There are enough of us to change the world today if we organized and focused on our ideals instead of them being only a side story in our lives.
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12 sats \ 1 reply \ @Scoresby 3h
Fair point. Many religions back you up. Christianity and Islam and Hinduism have remade the world. If we want to pursue Bitcoin adoption in the same manner as religions, perhaps we will similarly succeed.
I'd prefer to pursue adoption along the lines of technical innovations like automobiles, the internet, and smart phones. People didn't need to promote these things for ideological reasons. People chose to adopt them because they found it useful. I'm sure I'm looking at things with rose colored glasses here, but I'm of the opinion that bitcoin needs to win because it's undeniably better -- and I think that happens when people adopt it because it's the best way to achieve their goals.
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38 sats \ 0 replies \ @fiatbad 2h
For me, it's not that I think Bitcoiners should be ideologically pushing Bitcoin adoption so much as I think they should be avoiding the dollar with a religious-like passion.
It's their comfortable relationship with fiat, while simultaneously talking about how bad it is... that is what pisses me off the most. I think if we really believed what we preach, we would be creating small, Amish-like communities with Bitcoin circular economies and we would go out of our way to use fiat as little as possible.
I want to see a religious-like "jihad" against the dollar. Bitcoin just becomes the obvious choice for money when we refuse to use dollars. Or maybe we can try something like Goldbacks, I dunno. Just stop using dollars, mmkay? And stop giving me lip-service about taxes, greshham's law, and trojan horses. You're just making excuses to be lazy. That shit's just noise. STOP USING DOLLARS. It's a simple goal to strive for, and I'm not seeing much of it in this community.
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134 sats \ 1 reply \ @office 11h
I know it is stupid, but to get people interested in Bitcoin, you have to tell them that they should not look into it! They need to avoid Bitcoin at all costs!
I wish it was otherwise, but I don't make the rules. 80% of the time it works all the time. Reverse psychology is a bitch.
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I fear that you are correct about this. I'm going to give it a try.
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21 sats \ 0 replies \ @000w2 3h
The fact that they only associate money with spending is the main psyop of fiat currency.
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Most people in 1st world countries have no clue about bitcoin as a payment method, they'll just say 'my credit card works just fine!'
They may have heard about it as a store of value, but that will be it.
They're not watching Joe Nakomoto, they're not looking at m2 and inflation charts
btc is very much a case of when the student is ready, the teacher appears
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106 sats \ 1 reply \ @gnilma 13h
I don't know how old you are, but if you were born in the 80s like me, you might remember the internet in the early to mid 90s. I'm seeing a lot of similarities with the bitcoin network in terms of adoption. A lot of question, doubt, and thinking it's all hype, all scam, especially after the dot com bubble. But then, look at the internet now.
In the end, if it's a good idea, if it's a superior idea, people will adopt it, because they want what's best for themselves. If you've experienced the slowness, control, censorship, and just the pain of using the fiat banking system, you will appreciate bitcoin so much more. Or if you're unbanked like nearly 30% of the population on this earth, you will probably also find bitcoin very useful.
Like Saylor says, "bitcoin is on a need to know basis". Many people in the States have access to a usable banking system and access to investments to maintain their wealth, so they don't need to know about bitcoin. But eventually, everyone turns to bitcoin. Like the sayings go, "We are still early." "Gradually then suddenly." "You get bitcoin at the price you deserve."
"An idea whose time has come is unstoppable." Your friends will turn to bitcoin when they feel the need for it. Just make it known that they can come talk to you and ask for advice / seek education when that need arises. Meanwhile, "stay humble and stack sats" my friend.
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Many wise words. The 80s has produced a generation of sages.
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Most people don't need it until they need it.
What exactly the catalyst will be, especially in the developed world, that's still a million-sats question to me...
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0 sats \ 0 replies \ @kepford 3h
This really is the way. I still have so many friends that are fast asleep but I don't care that I'm the "weirdo" at all. You have to not care. You have to care more about your family and the future than what people around you think about what you think.
In other words... have conviction.
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You don't need to convince anyone not in the domain.
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21 sats \ 0 replies \ @aljaz 12h
the solution is to get better friends
people who won't spend enough time to at least briefly understand something you're passionate about and just wave it off also don't really value you or your judgement. So wasting your time on them is pointless.
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10 sats \ 0 replies \ @nullcount 6h
but it will take a tremendous amount of work and a very long time.
Its up to each individual person to do the "work" to learn (or unlearn) about money. The more you understand BTC, the more BTC you tend to own.
2 Separate Timelines. 2 separate Universes.
I think we're in the same universe... just two different kinds of people live in it. We live in the "future" simply because we like to learn about new tech and have adopted BTC before most people have even tried it.
Others would rather adopt new tech later on, after all the difficulties have been smoothed out, or they'll only change behaviors when there is no other option left.
You can't force a late-majority kind of person into becoming an early-adopter. Its just their nature, like our nature is to be early. Embrace your nature and others'.
Even in Los Angeles BTC Map is scarce... and I mean SCARCE on places to spend Bitcoin it's just bizarre.
Not that bizarre if you understand business and the desire to hold better money. Businesses want to make things for rich people because rich people tend to pay more. However, people who are "Bitcoin Rich" are more likely to understand that BTC is better money, and therefore they are less likely to want to spend it if there is inferior money left to spend. Its the same reason you can't find many places to "spend" stocks, real estate, fine art, and other assets.
But in the 'normie' world Lightning does NOT exist.
Good! LN is pretty complicated. Its probably best if people don't know it exists. Do most internet users know TCP/IP exists? Probably not, they just use a domain name or email address and it just works! That's the role LN should have IMO.
And all of them have no FUCKING IDEA what I'm talking about.
This should be a hint... stop talking about bitcoin and start asking them about their ideas of money.
Do they feel inflation? Where do they think inflation comes from? Do they like the USD? Do they think we should go back to gold standard?
Ask questions, resist the urge to give answers right away. Once you understand where they stand, you can start to nudge them toward learning about BTC on their own time.
There are enough resources to learn about BTC once someone is curious enough to WANT to learn about it.
People won't remember the words you said, they only remember how you made them feel.
If you make them feel like they're being sold something, or educated, that's less ideal than if you make them feel curious and intellectual about the nature of money and value.
My friends/colleagues overwhelmingly think that Bitcoin is a joke. Like a digital pet rock... if not a scam + outright waste of time
Maybe they're right! If you are curious about their reasons, maybe they'll become curious about your reasons for owning BTC.
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I don't understand your urge to orange pill. Their ignorance is your opportunity to stack for cheap, why would you try to influence them to frontrun you?
Further, you know people have been kidnapped for their wallets/keys, right? By blabbering about bitcoin everywhere, you are painting a target on yourself.
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Minds are rarely changed by reason alone, and systems follow their own inertia. Accept this truth—and keep building, keep waiting, for Bitcoin’s moment to come.
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5 sats \ 0 replies \ @Se7enZ 12h
It's this present reality on the ground that makes me think Blackrock and the tradfi cartel stacking in the background is current greatest threat and tragedy to Bitcoin right now. The general public desperately needs to understand it and proliferate it as usable exchanged currency, but the big boys are on their way to hoarding it as reserves and reducing / delaying the MoE application.
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I believe that eventually everyone will use it
I don't see that path tbh. My thought is: the reason to use fiat is because state coercion. With Bitcoin there is no state coercion, thus not everyone will opt in, and it is important for it to remain opt-in: less tyranny, more liberty.
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Bitcoins use as a MoE has been very slyly and successfully OBSTRUCTED by the bankers and governments who benefit from the fiat monetary system which relies upon its MoE dominance. Even most Bitcoiners do not understand this. Yes it is a war of subterfuge where lawfully using Bitcoin as a MoE has been in almost all jurisdictions made effectively impractical. By designating Bitcoin as a speculative commodity liable for CGT using Bitcoin to buy a coffee makes that transaction liable for CGT- so who is going to calculate and pay tax everytime they use Bitcoin for such transactions? Nobody is and so Bitcoin MoE is slyly designated unlawful. Merchants can accept but only conveniently if they use an application which immediately converts the sats prior to them arriving in their fiat bank account as fiat, not sats. So why would merchants accept a payment that very few customers have or even understand and of those few potential customers most would be breaking tax laws to use? Very very few is the answer. The fiat operators have effectively obstructed Bitcoin MoE use without most people, even Bitcoiners understanding/realising.
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0 sats \ 0 replies \ @kepford 3h
People, the general public, here in the US know that Bitcoin is expensive... but they have no idea how expensive, why it's valuable, or even the most basic ways to use it. They have zero idea what a "wallet" is or its function.
The masses are missing their chance to front run the elite. Its on them for being sheep. I've come to that realization. I have talked to people till I'm blue in the face about it. Its like a stone wall. Its a waste of time. Bitcoin will win, its just that the masses have always been and will always be followers. They are risk averse. Not in investing but in the space of ideas.
With the government pretending to be pro-bitcoin and ETFs gaining adoption we are seeing the wealthy try to "adopt" bitcoin. They don't really get it either but they realize it is something they should be exposed to. Even if they don't admit it.
I firmly believe those that have done the work will be rewarded for that work and bitcoin will enrich the lives of everyone. It won't make everyone rich, but that's a dumb idea anyway.
Here's the thing I think about when this topic comes up. If bitcoin is at 100k+ with so little understanding of its true utility and worth for mankind. What the heck is actually worth? I don't think anyone really knows. But I can't see it being worth less than it is now. I see it as exponentially more valuable than it is today. 10x is probably way off actually.
For the past 5 years now I've been taking bitcoin seriously. Not just stacking but learning how it works. How the tools work. How to communicate why it works. How to answer questions. How to teach people how to use it. I have very few opportunities to use this knowledge now. But I'm preparing myself to be an uncle Jim. I am for my family and a friend but pretty much everyone else is clueless and fast asleep.
This isn't depressing really. It should be expected. I've written about adjusting our time preference many times. The US is fat and happy. Even today with things not being so great. When people need it, bitcoin will be there if we, the vanguard keep working at it. Using it. Using the tools and preparing.
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0 sats \ 0 replies \ @avo 3h
Remember when I tried to encourage you a few years back to buy some Bitcoin? You would have more than doubled more money now.
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Bitcoin is a monetary revolution. Like the internet was a revolution for information. Watch this clip about internet and remember that we are not even there. https://youtube.com/watch?v=Z2fVTiEOl3U
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2 universes
Reality and the matrix.
How many signs did I see
This touches on something that I think is the problem with people that expect Bitcoin to be a ubiquitous MoE... It's literal savings technology, yet, the insistence that it be used in the meatspace for coffee to be successful is the Coca-Cola mindset.
Everyone is aware of and uses this pointless cornsyrup water, not because it is useful, but because they spend billions on signage.
Moths to a flame.
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0 sats \ 0 replies \ @Themis 6h
Don't give any shit to them.
Let them drown in fiat.
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I think that part of the rejection of Bitcoin is due to the bad reputation it has been given. There is a black cloud over it that it is used by jihadist terrorists, criminals and now even drug cartels. Unfortunately, it is the criminals who have given it its first use, and since Bitcoin was born as an "anti-system", that is why it is not given the visibility it deserves.
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Change your friends, change the world...
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0 sats \ 0 replies \ @jgbtc 8h
People's attitude towards lifeboats and icebergs was very similar on the Titanic.
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I believe that things will eventually improve...
I believe it too. We need to think about how we can speed up the transition. Somebody has to come up with a model like Bitcoin Mart that can where things are exclusively bought or sold for Bitcoin. I think this can start from online but tbh there area few which aren't competent against established fiat based merchants.
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