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Before you read this post I invite you to consider the question in the title. Do so in the solitude of your thoughts, or--this would be ideal--get a pencil and paper to write it down. Think about it and come back to finish reading only once you have. . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . So did you do what I'd suggested? You are your only arbiter here, so be judicious with yourself.
Ok - so what was the point, you ask? Most assuredly, you'll only keep reading if you want to find out, and if you made it this far, then I'll assume you care to read what this post has to say.
Arnold Schwartznegger did an interview on Rick Rubin's Tetragrammaton podcast recently and told a very compelling story about the power of the mind. I've been basically telling the story to everyone I have seen since I heard it, so I might as well leave it here too.
There was a point in human history, he said, when it was commonly believed to have been impossible for anyone to clean and jerk over 500lbs. The record stood at 496, when an ambitious power lifter said he could beat it. He racked up 498lbs. Pulled, and ... presto! The judges were agape. They proceeded by having the the bar rolled onto the scale, as was the procedure when a world record is broken, to double check the weight (as it can often happen that the plates can be a few pounds off.) To their astonishment, it read 502lbs.
Something is only impossible until someone does it, he added. The power lifter did what was thought to have been impossible and he did it without the preconceived notion that it was! This is the power of our thoughts.
It makes me think of the concept of 'beginner's luck,' which is from my experience, a real phenomenon. Perhaps we are 'lucky' when we first attempt something because our minds are not clouded by what is possible (or plausible in some cases) for a novice. Maybe beginner's luck comes from the fact that the first time you try something, you simply do it, and do not think about doing it.
In my job, folks love to overthink solutions (or they hate it, but they do it anyway, for such is the fiat grind) and in doing so they get stuck in the cloud of what is possible. I am guilty of it too. But, and I wonder, is it a coincidence that the only clear-minded individual I work with is an one who fled the clutches of a military regime in Africa, leaving some of his family behind for several years including his own children, to build a life for them in a better country? He has also happened to climb higher and faster on the corporate latter than anyone else to have walked through those doors to work there.
This is not an argument for some idealistic notion of the American Dream, but instead a reflection on the fact that if you look at this particular coworker of mine, let's call him Bob, and Arnold, both of them broke free from oppressive regimes to build a new life. And I'd be willing to wager, in both cases, that they had to build their own expectations for what would be 'possible.' I'm here to tell you, that I believe the extraordinary to be possible, but only if you allow yourself to be freed from your mental bondage. If everyone was like Bob and Arnold and, I mean, if everyone actively constructed their own expectations for themselves, carefully curated their social circles, and carefully defined, in their own vision, what will be possible in their life - then we would have many more Bobs and Arnolds. We would have many more Satoshis.
I'll leave you with one more example, and this time, looking from another perspective. I have a family member--you may find him familiar--whose case the rest of the family is constantly on. He is seen by most in the family as not X enough (insert any trait here deemed to be 'acceptable' or 'well adjusted' in society writ large, and I'm sure it has been said.) Their lamenting refrain is that they become sick and tired of helping someone who won't help himself, the obvious fallacy here being that he won't accept their helping him do whatever they have deemed to be possible. They are constantly building a house of cards around him, one that suits them, and then get frustrated with him every time he stands up and barges out, knocking their meticulously-constructed card house over.
The message here is this: I think people seldom want you to define for them what they can or should do, or how they should do it. Even less seldom do they want for you to tell them they are not capable of doing something. But aren't these just banal platitudes, you'll say? You knew that. Don't give unsolicited advice, and build up your friends, don't take them down. But, nevertheless, seriously reflect on how you apply these standards to yourself.
Are you building a similar house of cards around yourself?
Around somebody else?
Are you allowing yourself to explore your potential, or have you accepted conventional notions of what is possible? Are you exploring your inner depths, listening to your heart, going on contemplative walks? Do you have a vision for your life?
I believe owning Bitcoin is a kind of a 'cheat code' in realizing the potential of the mind. Satoshi did something extraordinary, probably never dreamed of by anyone else, and unlocked this way for us, whereby we don't have to let ourselves be constrained by conventional financial 'wisdom' (if something as diabolical as the fiat systems of old can be referred to thusly). You can be sure as shit he didn't do it by colouring in the lines.
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That's some serious reflection time. Enjoy!
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Thank you. This was a nice exercise!
The things that came up for me were about tradeoff time between health, work, passion, dreams, and family commitments. Having those dreams, entertaining these broadly-spread-out wants, become a limitation: Only so much time, only so much energy.
And definitely, lots of fiat job and commitments hold me back from realizing (or even really trying) what I think/hope/delude myself into believing is my potential
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Hahah yeah but got fiat work too and wanted to do it properly
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@remindme in three days
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Wonderful thoughts, sir. I hadn't read it before (stopped after your initial instructions and pushed it off to the weekend).
The power of imagination is vast, and not letting limitations hold you back are truly something. What I wondered with some of those stories was the risk assessment? For most things in people's lives, overcoming their (self-imposed?) limitations comes with risk: quitting fiat job to start a business, leave home city/country for an ambitious life elsewhere, try to make a relationship with someone instead of giving up. What was the power lifter risking? It seemed worth a try, right, with no downside. Not sure that holds for other people's lives.
Pit differently: aren't self-imposed limitations there to manage risk? It's discipline, a way to balance options?
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What I'm realizing after having read some of the comments and thought more about the subject is that I might not have captured my true feelings here.
We have to use discernment to properly assess the risks, but also not having a strong sense of vision for what is possible will inevitably keep you in the "safe" risk-free zone.
This Friday I was at a meeting for my clown job. A problem arose and the supervisor appealed to the staff for their thoughts on a proper course of action. Lots of good ideas came up, and when they did, I couldn't help noticing that the supervisor framed all of her responses with the awful phrase: "yea, but the problem with that is...."
It was like nails on a chalkboard. I kid you not she said it 4-5 times in a row to people who had a stake in the issue and genuinely wanted to help. I believe she is doing her best but lacks the creative drive to view challenges as opportunities and thinks only within a very narrow set of limits. On the other hand, if she threw all caution to the wind and entertained every solution equally without limits, broadening her perspective, that would be a problem too.
What I'm trying to say really is that I think most challenges, problems and tasks in life generally require a type of negotiation or dance, if you will, with the idealistic, visionary, and private (i.e. one's individual desires) and physical, socio-cultural or familial constructed realities, expectations and/or limitations. Having one completely without the other might lead to a terribly lonely existence.
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Agree with a lot of what you say. At the first stage of your essay I could not think of any limitations I am imposing on myself but after reading to the end of your post have to admit there probably are houses of cards that I have built or that have formed around my concept of my self. The idea we have of our self- of what is important to us and what we strive for or want or hope for is to some extend unavoidable imo. In placing limitations we also create context- imo it is difficult and potentially counterproductive to seek to remain entirely open to all possibilities when in reality we can only achieve if we focus on limited aspirations. Of course keeping an open mind is good- but lacking any firm convictions or ambitions can also create problems. Freedom is having nothing to lose... Hope this makes some sense.
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Thanks for thinking about it and leaving your input. Actually it does make sense. Some limiting factors are chosen and desirable (the choice to have children, for example). I wouldn't go as far to suggest thay everyone is capable of doing anything and everything they want. But then there are boxes that others put us in, I believe, and we learn to make compromises in our lives and implicitly accept them. Having a focused vision and choosing not to accept reality as others have constructed it is different than saying "I'm open to all and any possibility."
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Yes, agree it is a balance between not being told by others what you can do or should do/be, but seeking always to study and assess and decide what you want to do. The ability to think for oneself is a powerful skill but one that sadly not all people are lucky enough to gain. In the end I believe a lot of it comes down to the love or lack of it that surrounds us as we develop and learn how to think... our earliest years of life. Without the safety of a loving environment children may never develop the freedom of thought and inquiry required to search for, question and decide upon the many ways of seeing the world.
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Thought-provoking post! Thanks for spending so much life energy on this.
Well, the first thought that came to my mind was my children prevent me from leading a full life that includes socialisation and hobbies and travel.
Ask me this time next year if I manage to change my paradigm lol
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Enjoy the wonderful familial socialisation that your children can provide and try to share hobbies and travel with them if possible.
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Great advice. Thanks
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Yeah, talk about a self-imposed limitation! But probably valuable and worthy, at least as seen from the end of your own life no?
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I’m not sure honestly. It’s a daily battle I wrestle with haha.
But I think parenting gets easier and more fun as the kids grow up. I have hopes xP
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Great piece.
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Great post πŸ‘πŸ‘
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