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0 sats \ 8 replies \ @denlillaapan 10 Nov \ parent \ on: Guys? Do you have a girlfriend or a life? AskSN
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0 sats \ 7 replies \ @Shugard OP 10 Nov
@Aardvark Do you have any advice for us?
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101 sats \ 6 replies \ @Aardvark 10 Nov
Check your ego. Remember that you aren't always right. Be a team.
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0 sats \ 5 replies \ @denlillaapan 10 Nov
But what if I am right?
Go full Sawyer fr Lost on their ass?
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15 sats \ 4 replies \ @Aardvark 10 Nov
If you're right, but doing it in a way that makes your partner feel stupid, or bad, or inferior, then you're still wrong. Just in a different way.
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1 sat \ 0 replies \ @Shugard OP 10 Nov
I can agree with that!
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0 sats \ 2 replies \ @denlillaapan 10 Nov
Fuck no.
Feelings don't rule the world. Grow up
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15 sats \ 1 reply \ @Aardvark 10 Nov
Feel free to disregard your partners feelings on principle then. Let me know how that works out for you.
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1 sat \ 0 replies \ @denlillaapan 10 Nov
Oh absolutely crap, but it doesn't change the fact or principle that feeling isn't enough for assessing reality or doing stuff.
Assessing events and decisions through one's horribly volatile emotional status is a disaster. Some of that is just femininity etc, and it's my job to disregard... Does seem belittling but maybe Sawyer is on to something, then.
Regardless, I don't know how to square those things.
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