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101 sats \ 6 replies \ @Aardvark 10 Nov \ parent \ on: Guys? Do you have a girlfriend or a life? AskSN

Check your ego. Remember that you aren't always right. Be a team.

0 sats \ 5 replies \ @denlillaapan 10 Nov

But what if I am right?

Go full Sawyer fr Lost on their ass?

If you're right, but doing it in a way that makes your partner feel stupid, or bad, or inferior, then you're still wrong. Just in a different way.

1 sat \ 0 replies \ @Shugard OP 10 Nov

I can agree with that!

0 sats \ 2 replies \ @denlillaapan 10 Nov

Fuck no.

Feelings don't rule the world. Grow up

15 sats \ 1 reply \ @Aardvark 10 Nov

Feel free to disregard your partners feelings on principle then. Let me know how that works out for you.

1 sat \ 0 replies \ @denlillaapan 10 Nov

Oh absolutely crap, but it doesn't change the fact or principle that feeling isn't enough for assessing reality or doing stuff.

Assessing events and decisions through one's horribly volatile emotional status is a disaster. Some of that is just femininity etc, and it's my job to disregard... Does seem belittling but maybe Sawyer is on to something, then.

Regardless, I don't know how to square those things.