Why is there no thread called "Family/Relations/Friends"?
I want to post things about my girlfriend. About previous relationships. I want to share lessons, values, thoughts about my personal life. But where to put it?
You would all benefit from my mistakes!
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39 sats \ 2 replies \ @ShibatoshiNakamoto 10 Nov 2024
I'm single and I can say I have a decent life. I'm happy and that's what matters to me the most!
Also, the reason I don't have anyone or I'm single is that I have Aspergers and it's hard for me to understand a person and connect emotionally with them.
Also, how about you? How's your relationship going?
Any advice for me?
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10 sats \ 1 reply \ @Shugard OP 10 Nov 2024
I'm glad you can say you're living a decent life!
That's the best I can say!
The biggest mistake is to try to find one that is "complete" or to chase something.
The only tip I can give is to be yourself, be honest and stick to your values. Don't change for anyone.
If no one can be with you, then so be it.
Then you are too good for this world and they don't deserve you.
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0 sats \ 0 replies \ @ShibatoshiNakamoto 10 Nov 2024
Thank you! I really appreciate it.
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16 sats \ 1 reply \ @oliverweiss 10 Nov 2024
Can’t you have both?
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0 sats \ 0 replies \ @Shugard OP 10 Nov 2024
I think you can, but I think you are missing something.
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14 sats \ 1 reply \ @Zapman 10 Nov 2024
How are things going with your gf?
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0 sats \ 0 replies \ @Shugard OP 10 Nov 2024
Things are changing fast, but things are great and getting better.
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23 sats \ 10 replies \ @Aardvark 10 Nov 2024
I'm happily married. I don't know about everyone else.
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0 sats \ 8 replies \ @denlillaapan 10 Nov 2024
No lessons?
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0 sats \ 7 replies \ @Shugard OP 10 Nov 2024
@Aardvark Do you have any advice for us?
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101 sats \ 6 replies \ @Aardvark 10 Nov 2024
Check your ego. Remember that you aren't always right. Be a team.
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0 sats \ 5 replies \ @denlillaapan 10 Nov 2024
But what if I am right?
Go full Sawyer fr Lost on their ass?
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15 sats \ 4 replies \ @Aardvark 10 Nov 2024
If you're right, but doing it in a way that makes your partner feel stupid, or bad, or inferior, then you're still wrong. Just in a different way.
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1 sat \ 0 replies \ @Shugard OP 10 Nov 2024
I can agree with that!
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0 sats \ 2 replies \ @denlillaapan 10 Nov 2024
Fuck no.
Feelings don't rule the world. Grow up
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15 sats \ 1 reply \ @Aardvark 10 Nov 2024
Feel free to disregard your partners feelings on principle then. Let me know how that works out for you.
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0 sats \ 0 replies \ @Shugard OP 10 Nov 2024
Congratulations! I hope you have a wonderful partner and are working on being an even better one!
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11 sats \ 2 replies \ @realBitcoinDog 10 Nov 2024
@DesertDave ~alter_native is the place you seek.
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20 sats \ 1 reply \ @Shugard OP 10 Nov 2024
So this is the territory for everything else?
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10 sats \ 0 replies \ @realBitcoinDog 10 Nov 2024
It’s where people share personal stories
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10 sats \ 1 reply \ @DesertDave 10 Nov 2024
~alter_native is a great place to share that type of content. We love learning from stories that are more personal
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11 sats \ 0 replies \ @Shugard OP 10 Nov 2024
Thank you for your recommendation
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10 sats \ 2 replies \ @grayruby 10 Nov 2024
Alternative or meta.
And no I don't have a girlfriend. I wanted one but my wife didn't approve. Haha
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40 sats \ 1 reply \ @Shugard OP 10 Nov 2024
What a cruel wife you have!
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0 sats \ 0 replies \ @grayruby 10 Nov 2024
Haha
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10 sats \ 2 replies \ @denlillaapan 10 Nov 2024
Oh man, @realBitcoinDog just has to chip in here.
Maybe that's the territory you make? ~marriedlife
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0 sats \ 1 reply \ @Shugard OP 10 Nov 2024
Would love to! Is there a poll option on SN? Or do I know if there is a demand? Because having a territory is quite expensive for my taste.
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0 sats \ 0 replies \ @realBitcoinDog 10 Nov 2024
Yes when you make a post click “options” and besides link and discussion one is a poll.
You still get to write a lengthy post but ask a poll at the end.
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0 sats \ 0 replies \ @ch0k1 11 Nov 2024
Actually, this is not a bad idea for a dedicated territory...
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0 sats \ 0 replies \ @Satoshi__Nakamoto 10 Nov 2024
You can post here separately
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0 sats \ 1 reply \ @Coinsreporter 10 Nov 2024
I have wife and life both.
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0 sats \ 0 replies \ @Shugard OP 10 Nov 2024
Good fucking job!
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48 sats \ 4 replies \ @Imyourfed 10 Nov 2024 freebie
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5 sats \ 3 replies \ @denlillaapan 10 Nov 2024
Give us all the deets, sir.
esp advice and tricks
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50 sats \ 2 replies \ @Imyourfed 10 Nov 2024
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4 sats \ 1 reply \ @denlillaapan 10 Nov 2024
very interesting collection of things, thanks for compiling it!
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0 sats \ 0 replies \ @Imyourfed 10 Nov 2024
You're welcome!
I'm glad you liked it :)
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