wallet of satoshi has lots of channel capacity so I guess it's good for increasing overall throughput and usability. It also has fully self-custodial option.

I know that fees on acinq are outrageous, sometimes it'd be cheaper to send on-chain btc (esp at 1sat/vb rates) than via LN, which puts into question the whole model.

Personally the best lightning wallet I used is shockwave (not affiliated or anything, I just tried all options including breeze and zeus):