Thank you for your persistence! 

I agree with you. After parenthood, you can no longer put yourself at the centre when you make decisions

cryotosensei

Let me try this a third time. For some reason it wasn't switching out of the sports account for me.

I was trying to say that I don't think anyone should expect their lifestyle to stay the same after having kids. Even if your wife is willing to do the majority of the child rearing, it is still a major shift in lifestyle.

AskSN

Men are from Mars, Women are from Venus

Let me try this a third time. For some reason it wasn't switching out of the sports account for me. 

I was trying to say that I don't think anyone should expect their lifestyle to stay the same after having kids. Even if your wife is willing to do the majority of the child rearing, it is still a major shift in lifestyle. 