Thank you for your persistence! 

I agree with you. After parenthood, you can no longer put yourself at the centre when you make decisions

Let me try this a third time. For some reason it wasn't switching out of the sports account for me. 

I was trying to say that I don't think anyone should expect their lifestyle to stay the same after having kids. Even if your wife is willing to do the majority of the child rearing, it is still a major shift in lifestyle. 

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Posted this on a parenting forum dedicated to my countrymen. My comment garnered 17 likes (and counting). Didn’t expect that at all. I think maybe it’s because of the observation regarding the differing attitudes men and women have toward parenthood.

How are men and women different from your experience?