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177 sats \ 2 replies \ @freetx 21 Dec \ on: Dear future me, alter_native
I can't predict how your GF will react, but from personal experience my wife changed from "unsure" about family to "all in" once we got married.
I think, very naturally, that women need to feel you are fully invested in her and totally committed until that part of them opens up.
I think the other thing that helped change my wifes mind was that I was lucky enough to be earning enough so she could stay at home. I think the combo of us being married + her seeing that some level of financial security was possible was the difference for her.
Greg Gutfeld and his wife recently had their first child. They were married in 2004.
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Well said. Amazing that your wife did. I really believe in people's ability to change. We evolve over time. I can't be expected to say and do everything exactly as I did five years ago or even last year. Nor do I expect that from anyone else. We learn constantly and have to readjust accordingly.
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