I just had for the first time in a while focused time with the wife in less than ideal conditions. Over the phone, after my son fell asleep in his hospital bed and I'm doing this night's shift while my wife is at home. Other days last week when i could have spent time with her while both at home after kid's bedtime, i didn't realise the luxury of being able to do so. I worked on a paper and updated my daily puzzle. Me-time should not trump us-time. Really need to set my priorities. Still, tonight was nice, even though it was over the phone.