From the incredibly targeted violence of exploding pagers to wide reaching oppressive policies under dictators, volatile financial markets and shady campaign promises of brighter futures, I find myself going to bed often thinking about what the future holds for my family and my young children.
Worrying. Strategizing.
Earlier this week after getting my toddler boy snuggled, kissed, and dressed for the day, we headed down the hall together- quiet to let his older sisters sleep a bit longer. At the top of the stairs, my little guy asked to be picked up. For context, I have a modest collection of rubber duckies displayed on the wall in our staircase. These range from princess ducks to lumberjack ducks, cupcake ducks to duck ducks (my favorite!). Among the flock are a series of knight and pirate ducks all with swords or armor. As we started down the stairs, my brave boy wrapped his little arms around me and looked me straight in the face with a solemn, sincere stare. He said, “Mommy, I keep you safe. I fight those bad ducks for you.”
In a world full of chaos and uncertainty, I found myself taking incredible comfort in the fact that no matter what happens in the world at large or even in our little corner, I have a son who loves his mommy and is willing to fight (those mean rubber duckies) to keep her safe. Knowing that I can never fully control our circumstances anyway, no amount of perceived security could trump the joy of knowing this kind of love.
Amazing post. Love to read. My children also have collection of ducks
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Lovely post.
My daughter loves rubber duckies too. She has quite the collection.
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Love reading this!
And i can draw a connection to my own life. One of the first words my daughter spoke was duck. They sure have a hold on little beings, huh?
Looking forward to reading more
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Great post. My daughter's become obsessed with good guys and bad guys, lately. She was making some sort of thief trap out of her toys the other day.
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Amazing Story! Hats off for the amazing Kiddo! So far I don't have any kids but after listening to so many such stories in the parents corner, I'm inspired. I now want many many kids. 😁
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Love that mindset, in the end - we have each other and the love for each other. It makes no sense to worry, as often times we have 0% influence and control over those situations.
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Worrying only attracts the outcomes less preferred.
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I feel like when I relinquish the need to control, things go the best way I can imagine or better.
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That's a great story. Children are the greatest gift ever. My kids definitely saved my life. Thank you for sharing. 💚
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Living in a world that often feels like it's getting worse rather than better, I sometimes question whether having children was the right decision. After all, they will likely face more challenges than I did. However, I always find comfort in knowing that the world is better with them in it, and it would be worse without them. This gives me hope that humanity might eventually focus on what truly matters and come together to address the challenges we all face. Perhaps the next generation will be better than mine and those that came before.
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I remember bathing my kids when they were small and the rubber duck was always the favorite tot. it's a classic. I think I am ready for more babies. I miss it
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