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"where are you from, i detect an accent?" - to convey exactly where i was born, where i grew up, where i have been, and how my accent formed, wud require at least 30 seconds, a one-sentence answer is not sufficient.
i am then faced with a challenge of figuring out whether the person is interested in those details, whether he/she is worth talking to, and whether sharing those details is safe.