275 sats \ 5 replies \ @siggy47 3 Sep \ on: Road-To-Suave Fabs / Part 3. ideasfromtheedge
I'd say you handled yourself well with #4. Regarding #3, am I accurate in saying that you only ask girls out in your gym? Maybe the word is spreading that you're hitting on everyone? Just a pessimistic shot in the dark. That's what I bring to the table 😀
Also, you really don't know anything about these women beyond the fact that they're physically attractive to you. They are aware of this as much as you are. Maybe you're better off seeking natural conversations, getting to know a few women over time, and then progressing with one with whom you have something in common on a few levels?
Maybe you're better off seeking natural conversations, getting to know a few women over time, and then progressing with one with whom you have something in common on a few levels
My wife had the same thought. She also agreed with me that answering "no" to "Do you have a boyfriend?" is a signal of interest, since the girl could easily just lie about that.
am I accurate in saying that you only ask girls out in your gym?
Absolutely.
Maybe the word is spreading that you're hitting on everyone? Just a pessimistic shot in the dark. That's what I bring to the table 😀
Absolutely not. It's a - to me - very anti-social club, as in: Almost everyone's in their own little bubble, continuously staring at their little screens while "working out".
Afaik, all the girls (3) which I've asked out in the gym until now, work out on different times and don't know each other, and one of the girls is from staff.
And even if, it's a social space and nothing short of a compliment to the girl, I could care less if anyone thinks something of that, at least I have the balls to do it, and I'm not giving anyone hard feelings about a "No" either. 😄
Also, you really don't know anything about these women beyond the fact that they're physically attractive to you.
Exactly, that's what the whole "wanna get to know each other" part is all about, ain't it? I'm there to work out, not chit-chat- and neither are they, I hope. 😄
Maybe you're better off seeking natural conversations, getting to know a few women over time, and then progressing with one with whom you have something in common on a few levels?
Meh, see above. 😸
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