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33 sats \ 12 replies \ @Fabs OP 23 Aug 2024 \ parent \ on: Lend Me A Hand In Asking Out A Girl. ideasfromtheedge
Hm, I'm totally not the type of guy who can sit for hours on-end, be it for drinks or dinner- at least on the first dates.
Therefore, I'd like to simply go for a walk and a cup of ice, sit down somewhere nice and quiet, and get to know each other. 🙂
Thanks! Yeah, I've already made my peace with the fact that I'm gonna get hurt a little, but it might be worth it! 😁
I recommend something like billiards, or ping pong, or darts, or mini golf, or axe throwing, or an arcade, or any type of "game" venue for a first date. Basically an awkwardness/attention diffuser while you're first getting to know each other.
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Meh, I'm competitive and not that good at losing... It could be a solid first Stress-Test, though... 😆
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She might like that. Who knows?!
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Yeah, but do I wanna take the added risk?
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Tradeoffs, tradeoffs everywhere.
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Oh K00bie... Life's tough. 🥺
In general, I recommend not overthinking it and take every approach/date as an experiment or iteration on your way to suave Fabs. It'll help with learning that any one woman/date isn't the goal and their rejection isn't the end. The goal is you being a better date/more dateable as you prepare to meet The One which will happen fast if you free yourself to experiment enough.
That's actually a very very good suggestion!!
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I'd like to simply go for a walk and a cup of ice, sit down somewhere nice and quiet, and get to know each other.
Perfect. Ask her if she wants to do that with you.
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Thanks coach, will do.
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