Ah, that makes a lot more sense. I think we all feel like that at times, the high time preference path is the easiest.

I think OP meant high time pref

They want to be high time pref and yolo thru life, but have social commitments that motivate mid to low time pref behaviours

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🕛 Time preference: Which one describes you?

Surely you'd like to be low time preference? 

High time preference means that you highly value *when* you get things or do things, hence you want them sooner rather than later.

Low time preference means you aren't so concerned about *when* you get things or do things, and so are more willing to wait and build things up for the future.