Ah, that makes a lot more sense. I think we all feel like that at times, the high time preference path is the easiest.

I think OP meant high time pref

They want to be high time pref and yolo thru life, but have social commitments that motivate mid to low time pref behaviours

Surely you'd like to be low time preference? 

High time preference means that you highly value *when* you get things or do things, hence you want them sooner rather than later.

Low time preference means you aren't so concerned about *when* you get things or do things, and so are more willing to wait and build things up for the future.

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🕛 Time preference: Which one describes you?

I would like to be high time preference but at the same time I would love to be counted among family/small social unit. 