Hahaha, I've gone through a few cycles of this. He's more complicated. I un-mute sometimes to take a look, and he's friendly and helpful and thoughtful and insightful, and I'm like, huh, what is wrong with me, what could I have been thinking?

And then he turns into a giant abusive jerk that makes me hate being here, like when you go a restaurant and there's some four year old screaming and mashing food on his face and knocking silverware on the floor, and back into the shadows he goes.

He's the only one who's ever made it back, which I guess is a sort of compliment. Everyone else I've muted (there's not many, single digits) seems to be pretty steadily worthless.