We should take care of what's necessary as a matter of kindness to ourselves and to others but I'm not sure we should love (or hate) those things. It's better to recognize that we won't always be able to (or have to) do those things.

I would say the key to living well is more about perception than action. Try as we might, we have very little control of the big picture. By maintaining an even attitude about all of it, we can conserve our energy for when the shit hits the fan.