hey, no need for sorry, at all!

That's what I'd ultimately decided, after praying about the matter, during yesterday and in the evening before bed. It was all a pipe dream, and was never going to be a thing. It'd have just been "I need more money because this went wrong, etc - " untoward seeing how far one was willing to go.

an hour ago I politely told her off, and closed the chat.

thanks again man.