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Have you ever caught yourself judging someone based solely on “the old image” you had of them from years ago? Whether it’s a classmate who used to be playful, talkative, and constantly cracking jokes in class—making them seem less respectable—but then, one day, returns as a university lecturer with in-depth expertise, or a colleague who once botched their first project but has now become highly proficient at managing tasks.

How Do Old Images Stick in Our Minds?
Our brains tend to store “first impressions” or “striking events” as a frame of reference to judge people in the present. Very often, we even use these old notions to predict someone’s future. More importantly, we often resist new information or unfamiliar things that conflict with our existing mental frames. We feel it threatens our sense of security or comfort derived from what we’re used to—sometimes destabilizing our reliance on the old image we hold on to. Thus, letting old impressions guide our decisions becomes a shortcut the brain loves to use, especially in fast-paced daily life.

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We all have the right to change and grow. The same is true for our image in the eyes of others.

Old Mindsets Make Us Cling to the Past
Consider a friend who once failed math but is now a professional programmer or the head of a development team at a large company. Or a colleague who was once seen as consistently making the wrong decisions but who has since honed their judgment skills and become the most astute thinker on the team. These transformations can happen to anyone who crosses paths with us in life.

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People can develop and grow in ways you might never expect.

How Can We Open Our Minds to Accept Others’ Transformations?
1. Ask Yourself More Often
Each time you find yourself judging someone based on old impressions, pause to ask, “Is what I once saw or knew in the past still true?” and “How have they changed now?” You might also consider, “Do they have any positive qualities or changes compared to the old image I’m used to?” These questions encourage you to open up and seek new information.

2. Observe Present Behavior
Instead of holding on to past stories, try actively listening to their current opinions or watching their actions now. Look for progress or differences from what you used to think.

3. Give Them Opportunities and Time
Allowing someone the chance to prove themselves in new situations often reveals untapped potential or traits you never noticed before.

4. Focus on the Present Rather Than Old Memories
Don’t let their old image become a barrier to genuinely getting to know who they are today. The past may be just one chapter of their life, but it’s not the whole story of who they are now.

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Opening your mind to see how a friend from the past has changed today—without defining them by the mistakes they once made—is another step toward developing a more mature perspective.

The More We Open Our Minds, the More We Learn
Choosing to embrace someone’s new self not only strengthens your relationships but also allows you to learn from and be inspired by their journey. Every change someone undergoes is a testament to how endlessly people can grow. As the saying goes, “Do not judge others solely by their past.” A colleague who once struggled might become an expert in a field you never imagined, or that high school classmate might grow into a teacher who guides the younger generation. This is the profound power of recognizing and accepting others’ potential to change.

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Do Not Judge Others Solely by Their Past

Time is Money, but Happiness is Life

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# Time is Money, but Happiness is Life
 In today's world, filled with haste and relentless competition, we often hear the saying "time is money," which seems to be an undeniable truth as we are taught to use every minute to its maximum benefit, to generate income and achieve success. But we must not forget that "happiness is life" is another crucial aspect that is often overlooked amidst the pursuit of success and wealth. This article will explore the relationship between time, money, and happiness, including ways to balance these elements, which the author hopes will provoke thought in readers.

##### Money is Necessary, but Not Everything
No one can deny that money is essential for survival. We use money to secure basic necessities such as food, shelter, education, and healthcare. Money also opens doors to valuable experiences like traveling, developing new skills, or even building a more secure future for our families. But the truth we shouldn't forget is that money cannot buy love, happiness, or life satisfaction. True happiness comes from valuable relationships, doing what we love, and feeling complete in life. These are not things that can be exchanged for money, but rather things we must invest time and intention in creating ourselves.
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##### Time is an Irreplaceable Resource
Money is a tool that helps us achieve our goals, but time is our most valuable resource because it cannot be reversed or bought back. Every minute that passes is lost forever. Dedicating too much time to working for income may cause us to neglect what's truly valuable in life, such as relationships with loved ones, taking care of our health, and finding joy in activities we enjoy. Using time wisely is crucial. We must choose to spend time on what matters most, such as building good relationships with family and friends, taking care of our physical and mental health, developing new skills and knowledge, or living life to the fullest according to our desires.
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##### Happiness is the Ultimate Goal of Life That Everyone Desires
If we ask ourselves whether we would choose time or happiness if given the option, we would all likely choose happiness, because happiness is the true goal of life. Although time allows us to do various things, or money can provide comfort and reduce stress in some cases, they cannot create lasting happiness. Having time to do what we love, maintaining good relationships with those around us, or helping others are all things that create long-term happiness for us more than anything else. True happiness doesn't depend on the amount of money we have, but on the emotional value we create from our daily activities.
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##### Balance Between Money, Time, and Happiness
Creating a balance between money, time, and happiness may seem difficult in daily life filled with demands from various responsibilities. But in reality, it's about adjusting our mindset and behavior towards these elements. Finding this balance is key to leading a truly happy and meaningful life. Here are some thoughts and advice from the author that might encourage readers to create a meaningful and creative balance in their lives:
1. Set clear goals and live with purpose
Having clear goals in terms of finances, time, and happiness is key to helping you avoid getting lost or feeling overwhelmed. Good goals should be in line with what you feel is valuable and makes you happy, not just accumulating wealth or chasing social success. Try to reflect on what's most important in your life, what makes you feel fulfilled. Then, try to prioritize which activities in your life you should choose first, and plan your time use to align with that goal.
2. Manage time wisely and learn to take breaks
In an era where life is full of rush and endless work, efficient time management is crucial. Remember that working hard doesn't always mean you'll have a more successful life. Knowing when to take breaks to recharge and giving yourself time to relax is important to keep your mind strong and open opportunities for you to spend time on things that create happiness.
3. Find satisfaction in small things that don't require much money
Sometimes happiness doesn't come from big things, but from small things around us. Spending time with family, walking in the park, or reading a favorite book are all activities that create happiness without spending money. Learning to feel grateful and satisfied with these small things is a good way to create sustainable happiness without relying too much on external material things.
4. Invest in good relationships
Meaningful relationships with people around you, such as family, friends, or partners, are sources of happiness that nothing can compare to. Spending time building and maintaining these relationships will make your life more complete. Prioritizing time spent with these people will help you feel energized to face the problems that come in each day.
5. Be flexible and adaptable when necessary
Life never goes according to plan, and being able to adapt in changing situations will help us maintain balance better. Don't pressure yourself too much when things don't go as hoped, but see it as an opportunity to grow and learn or let go of that problem sometimes.
6. Generate income from what you love
If you can find ways to generate income from things you love or are passionate about, you won't feel like you have to separate work from happiness. When you feel good and enjoy the work you do, the money you receive won't be something that creates pressure, but a byproduct of what you love.
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The balance of time, money, and happiness is not hard to achieve if you are determined and committed to managing your life methodically, and mindful of the true value of these things. Living the life you desire is possible by starting with knowing yourself, understanding your goals, and knowing how to allocate time for meaningful things. Happiness will not just be the destination, but something you can create every day.
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##### Conclusion
In a world full of rush and competition, realizing that "time is money, but happiness is life" is crucial. We must not forget that while money is necessary, it cannot buy true happiness. Using time wisely, valuing relationships, and finding balance in life are all keys to sustainable happiness. Remember, a valuable life is not measured by the amount of money in your account, but by the happiness and satisfaction we have each day. May you find the right balance for yourself and be happy every day of your life.


Music

Music: A Wonderful Path to Self-Discovery and Balanced Life

 I'm glad you liked my article and that it reminded you of a dear friend waiting for you to play - your favorite guitar. I hope you enjoy your time with your friend called music. ^ ^

Interesting, I'll try to follow your suggestions

Thank you for the welcome. I'm a Thai person who is practicing writing my little articles. I find Isan folk music to be very charming, and I enjoy it as well.

 ### "The music plays... and the whole world changes"

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 Have you ever noticed that when you hear your favorite song, your heart lightens up, stress begins to melt away, and a small smile appears on your face? This is not a coincidence, but the magical power of music affecting our body and mind. Whether you're a salaried employee facing challenges at work, someone looking for ways to take care of your mental health, or a person wanting to develop social skills, music is the key that will unlock the door to your new world.

#### Music: A Good Friend on Workdays

##### "Imagine... if we're sitting in front of a computer, work piling up, but then..."

If we want the power of focus, try finding music with soft piano sounds playing in the room or through our headphones. Our brain and feelings will start to concentrate. Work that looked like a mountain will begin to feel like small rolling hills that we can easily climb or walk through. After work, if we need a source to reduce fatigue and want an oasis of relaxation, songs with acoustic guitar might take you floating to a peaceful beach. Stress will gradually melt away with the wind and waves. But if we need a well of creative energy, try diving into music with fun African rhythms, or perhaps the sound of 'Khaen' from Isan folk music. We'll find creativity bubbling up unexpectedly.

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#### Music is a Balm for the Soul

##### "If we want to take care of our mental health... music is a special medicine that doesn't need to be ordered or found anywhere"

Sometimes we feel gloomy. Try finding songs you like to adjust your emotional balance. You might start with sad songs that understand you, then gradually change to encouraging songs. We'll feel like we have a friend who understands, ready to face life again with renewed strength. Recharge your spirit by singing your favorite songs loudly in the bathroom or car. Let your voice echo with the songs you love or songs that reflect your current emotions. Music will help absorb positive energy into your heart, making it more vibrant.

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#### Music is Like an Interpreter Connecting Friendships and Helping People Understand Us

##### "Want to improve social skills? A friend called... music is a universal language interpreter that everyone will understand"

Try starting a conversation by recommending your favorite songs at work. You might find that colleagues you've never talked to before have similar tastes in music. Or try opening up to a new world by going to concerts of music you like or styles you're not familiar with. You'll meet people with diverse interests and may gain new perspectives. You can unleash your true self by getting on stage for karaoke or dancing at a party. Your friend called music will help you forget your fears and open up your world to be yourself freely, making you more charming and intriguing.

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### "If you don't have friends today, if you still feel gloomy, if you want to experience new things, a new life, and want to add value to yourself, try consulting a friend called... music! ^^"
