Time is a problem I don't have an answer for, except to say it doesn't need to be complicated, and it's just one evening a month.

Keep it simple to start. Just meet in a bar or restaurant.

The guy who started ours used the orange pill app to start, them we began to encourage our friends to attend.

I understand OGs worried about giant bags, but people used to gather in bars for hundreds of years before the internet was invented (by Al Gore). I used to drink in bars on Friday afternoons with my pay check in my pocket, in cash, before everyone carried plastic. I think this fear of human contact is overblown. Cash was a hell of a lot easier than bitcoin for a mugger to gain access to. I'm not saying not to use sensible precautions.