letting someone (who's obviously enjoying the role) mix me a cocktail or cracking a beer while I talk to people.
This is similar to the 'gratitude for hospitality' rule followed, I believe, by the Franciscan order of monks, who generally follow a strictly vegetarian diet except when when accepting the hospitality of others. According to the Christian standpoint, these exceptions are made out of the edict, 'Love thy neighbour as yourself.'
I'm confident that SN loves your weirdness.
This is similar to the 'gratitude for hospitality' rule followed, I believe, by the Franciscan order of monks, who generally follow a strictly vegetarian diet except when when accepting the hospitality of others. According to the Christian standpoint, these exceptions are made out of the edict, 'Love thy neighbour as yourself.'