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And using a bank through Zelle for example (or the EU equivalent) may be better because it doesn't automatically scream Bitcoin however the names of buyer and seller will probably be shown to both. And at least if the amounts are small (500-2000$) and it's infrequent then it shouldn't matter...
Zelle is dogshit. For domestic settling of small things like a dinner.
I use Wise for (500-2000$) and they're none the wiser. How do I know? Because if they knew it was for bitcoin they would close the account. Plus you can have an LLC and Wise business account. Now those semi-frequent transactions are even less suspect and your counterparty DOES NOT LEARN YOUR NAME. The name is the LLC and the email can be whatever.