Tip - for receiving larger Lightning invoices, Aqua used to work okay, then seemed to almost stop working. It kind of worked, but often took days, and I had to resubmit invoices. Huge hassle. (It works fine for the fidelity bond).

I use Boltz.exchange now. Submit a lightning invoice to Robosats from Boltz.exchange, and it gets paid almost immediately. It's a little weird because it goes into the mempool immediately, but then the confirmation seems to take longer than normal.

Regardless, Boltz is the way. Unless maybe you have your own well-managed lightning node.