If you want to be a happier person then resolve to be more thankful. We take too much for granted, and don't take time to appreciate our gifts. In my darkest times, I didn't pray for help, I thanked God for what I still had.

If you want to be a better person, then resolve to love your neighbor. It's easy to be kind to people you agree with. It's hard to put yourself in the shoes of people you dislike. We're all human, and we all have our own challenges and struggles.