It was bound to happen, but I didn’t expect it to happen so soon. My son taught me a new word in Japanese.
I’m not particularly 負けずに嫌い (makezuni kirai, Japanese for hard to lose out), but since I am an ex-Science teacher, I have been inundating my son with Scientific principles so that he doesn’t struggle so much with Science for the Primary School Leaving Exam.
Hence, since his obsession with Pokemon, I have been emphasising the word magnets through this Pokemon compass.
My consistent indoctrination must have worked. Today, he told me something about 磁石 (jishaku).
“Okay what do you mean?” I asked, totally bewildered.
He was patient enough to explain to me that he was referring to this.
I confess that I asked Meta AI for the meaning of jishaku. You can imagine my delight when I learnt that it refers to magnets. 🧲
This means that my son has not only internalised what I have taught him, but was also somehow able to learn the Japanese word on his own. (Or maybe his mum taught him.) But it doesn’t matter.
Singapore is a competitive society in which we are regularly pitted against one another - for grades, for marriage prospects, for early retirement, for performance ranking. We typically don’t like it that much when we lose out to others. But today, I can tell you this:
My son can surpass all my brilliance for all I care. 😁
That's a great attitude..our children should outshine us if we are doing a good job. They are us 2.0. we are getting better with every generation ideally. Nice job being a great parent. Great post. Thank you.
This is going to be my approach to parenting. My children should end up living a better life than I did. I should raise them better than my parents raised me. They should end being happier, more successful, and ultimately be better parents for their own children in time.
This is great. I have seen and experienced where sometimes parents have a hard time letting their children grow past them and shine brighter. This seems crazy to me.
My four year old loves to play w magnets too. He finds them so interesting