nowadays, the wife plans most of the events & trips, while i make sure the plan gets fulfilled - i provide the education, muscles, security, funding, and figure out the paperwork. she is mostly in charge of the networking as well, since women are so much better at that.

sometimes i think i shud be completely quiet, but at the same her words do not carry as much power as my direct call to action. i do not use "maybe" or "perhaps" or otherwise tip-toe around a subject when away from keyboard. i think this is the opposite of how people usually are online vs meat-space 😂

so in short - she establishes the connections, and i follow-through. i also don't like planning in the short-term, my visions are long-term. i have a chart with 1m to 30yr increment goals, but i always change it, so when i update it with new goals, i look at the prior ones purely for fun.