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As much as I find parenting exhausting, I am grateful to have one boy and one girl. They enliven my journey, and I love understanding the similarities and differences between their preferences and attributing some of them to gender haha. I think I would have found parenting even more exasperating if I had two boys or two girls.
I am grateful to have married well because my wife is a rock and I wouldn’t know what I would do without her.
Would you say that you enjoy the struggle? Or you tackle it more like something you are determined to get out of the way?