english is not your native language

if you want more people to interpret what you write as less "teaching" you can consider structuring/presenting your thoughts in slightly different ways for example using the word "should" more carefully adding more context as to why something is a good idea presenting an idea, and allowing people to weight it on their own, as opposed to being told that this is the right way to do something or be something.

look example: Exactly, people should be more encouraging when others are trying things out, it takes so much effort to keep trying because of all the noise. vs Exactly, if people care about the people around them, they can consider being more encouraging when others are trying things out, it takes so much effort to keep trying because of all the noise.

same/similar result, but you are not telling people what they "should" be doing

you explore a lot and find a lot of interesting things, but sometimes your writing can come off as: I found the perfect thing/life and this is what everyone should be doing because its so great

is that your intention? or do you want to share the things you found, while also recognizing that everyone has their own journey towards whatever it is they are striving for?

people are in different places in their lives, have different goals even you will realize in x amount of time, that some things you thought was so great right now, you may think later, is not as great as before.

and guess what, maybe some people have already figured it out, that its not so great, or that it has certain limitations besides its greatness, while you still think it is so great, lol :)

example The real goal is creating a life that you don't need to escape from, being able to do things you love, and being surrounded by people who love you for being yourself. vs My real goal is creating a life that you don't need to escape from, being able to do things you love, and being surrounded by people who love you for being yourself.

so then you are not telling people what the goal is, you are sharing with people what your goal is, then people can consider your goal and decide for themselves if it is a nice goal to strive for

this is just an opinion, please ignore it if you dont like it, lol