Your collar might not be the right size. If you get a well fitting shirt, then the tie doesnt feel constricting.
I've tried upping collar sizes, different styles (buttons and collar stays) even not buttoning the top button, and all of them feel fine until I tie the tie. Even if the tie isn't flush against me, it still feels like I'm choking a bit.
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Get a clip on the. Cops use them for very good reasons.
I prefer a real tie but if it's comfort verses misery choose comfort.
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I honestly had never thought about cop ties and realized they were clip-ons.
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Not all, but many. I think the state troopers are more formal. Many police now wear fatigues and so no tie. I guess this is more old school.
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May be a mind over matter type of thing.
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