I agree with all that. Being humble and cultivating trust is very important. Sometimes, I think parents keep too many secrets and lie to their kids to "protect" them, and do more harm than good. I agree hitting is never necessary. 

DesertDave

alter_native

Parent's Corner - What makes a great father?

A great father always does what is benefiting his child. (Easier said than done.)

Find the right mom, love them, hug them, spend time with them, and ask for forgiveness when you come short of your standards, they'll appreciate and trust you more.

Don't hit them.