Hard to say. I think we all figure it out as we go.
Best I can guess is leading by example. Being compassionate and understanding but also challenging your kids to be the best they can be. Especially when it comes to character and habits.
I agree that these qualities are important to being a father. I feel as a father, there is at times a tricky balance between keeping the kids safe and pushing a little as well. Fathers usually take the training wheels off.
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Agreed. I think you have to be super protective to keep them safe from catastrophic outcomes but let them push the limits a little if the consequences of failing aren’t dire.
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