You misunderstand- in most democracies you are not forced to participate in the democratic process.
Democracy depends on enough people voluntarily engaging and participating or it becomes more and more operated by a small group of cronies who dominate the process.
This is what has already happened and western liberal democracies show many signs of dying.
You might find what replaces them even less to your liking.
But then it will be too late to easily do much about it.
Ask the majority of people on this planet, who do not live in the liberal western democracies- the developing and third world who live in the scraps we leave them after plundering the best of their resources.
Entitles and naive Libertarians are arguably complicit with handing over global hegemony to China.