I totally agree with you, I also avoid conflicts even though I see myself as a big fool.

Msd0457890

I think I am a very loving person . And sometimes my love and passion can be seen as being an asshole. I can't control how other people receive me. 

#2. I have strident opinions that I suppress. 

siggy47

Are you saying that avoiding conflict makes you an asshole or that you avoid conflict to avoid being an asshole?

Mine is conflict avoidance, no doubt. I'm a real asshole deep down. 