I see it more like living an urban monk life style, still I would like to find a wife and have kids, is it possible to achieve without being a fiat slave

We [then] summarize women’s short-term-mating preferences, designed primarily to identify mates who possess “good genes” cues that would ensure healthy offspring, followed by a summary of women’s long-term mating preferences, designed primarily to identify mates capable and interested in investing in women and offspring.