Its hard as fuck.   I am on the outs with just just about all my family.  We are on different paths.  But I am tight with my kids and that is the most important thing to me.

Remember

For sure we don't know what'd be safe to change without changing good things about who we are. I'd risk it if it meant I could have a real sibling relationship with my sister, but that's about it.

k00b

alter_native

Would you or do you smoke pot in front of your children?

Own that shit.  You are awesome and in part you have those "shitty" experiences to thank.