From my perspective, if you don’t want to be burdened by those things you mentioned, you should be able to opt-out if the system. If you don’t want to deal with taxation, or codes, or nosy neighbors - you should be able to forsake the public social and infrastructure benefits that come from the society you are opting out of, in exchange for not having to pay taxes to service those resources.

Sadly, the current nation state doesn’t allow people to opt out like that.