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62 sats \ 3 replies \ @Undisciplined 12 Jul \ on: Book Review | “The Four Tendencies” BooksAndArticles

Take the quiz.

I didn't want to enter my email, so I didn't get my official result. I'm pretty sure I'm a Questioner, though. My wife is definitely a Rebel.

I share your fascination with these types of frameworks.

This diagram is interesting. It seems to imply that I can relate to Upholders and Rebels, but not Obligers, whereas you can relate to Questioners and Obligers, but not Upholders. https://m.stacker.news/39373

34 sats \ 1 reply \ @cryotosensei OP 12 Jul

By virtue of her culture, my wife is an Upholder. Which makes her exasperated with me because I happily flout certain unspoken rules in Japan. I stick out like a sore thumb by being the only person to jaywalk when there are no vehicles around. (All the Japanese wait dutifully at the traffic lights!) I also like to eat while walking - another social taboo in Japan.

I think I can survive around Upholders though. The teaching system is full of protocols and best practices. But I like to do unorthodox things just to remind myself that my spirit cannot be captured haha

13 sats \ 0 replies \ @Undisciplined 12 Jul

The positive spin is that you and your wife are highly complementary.

21 sats \ 0 replies \ @Bell_curve 12 Jul

Rebel

Is anyone surprised by my result?

Upholders are so annoying!