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175 sats \ 5 replies \ @Undisciplined 18 Jun \ on: Parent Corner: Earn your Dirt mostly_harmless
We've been going on afternoon walks in the woods, while our daughter rides her little scooter or just runs around us. At some point on most of these walks, she just stops and stands in place. When we ask her what she's doing, she says very softly "I'm all out of energy." Then I carry her on my shoulders for the rest of the walk (or until her energy is back).
They tend to get a second wind pretty quick. I am sure those daily family treks are planting many positive seeds with the little one. Appreciation for nature, physical activity, spending time with family. Individually and in the moment they might not seem like much but I firmly believe when you compound these positive experiences on top of one and other it does wonders in the long term.
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I certainly hope so. She's not always a very good sport about it.
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I think the time together and the experiences are wonderful. But I wouldn't have strong expectations about kids developing a love of the outdoors from treks organized by parents. I've seen too many examples of parents who love hiking/backpacking, taking the kids along (dragging the kids along is what some kids would say) and then the kid turning totally against anything outdoor related.
But maybe that's a temporary thing, and it comes back. Teenage rejection of parental values, something like that...
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That reminds me of some of our longer treks with kids. Sometimes a bit of encouragement from one little Skittles candy would give them a burst of energy. Of course, it helps when you call them "energy pills". I'm not sure if it's setting a good precedent, though!
I also remember at another point when trying to wear out a kid...cherrios. One (single, solitary, plain) cheerio was the "payment" for running around a large outdoor bandstand. Of course it was the fun and novelty of it that made it exciting.
So do team sports work work well for your kid(s)? They're kind of a given nowadays in the US, backyard play has mostly disappeared. But I still remember the days when a group of kids got together and played kickball in a backyard. Or you would have a ping-pong tournament in somebody's garage, and play all afternoon. I wish that were still happening, I think kids miss a huge amount of fun/socialization/agency/responsibility/organization skills, etc, compared with the standard parent-organized team sports that are the only "game" in town now.
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My daughter's only four. We tried flag football last summer and she didn't have the focus for organized activities. Her dance class ended recently and she did better with that, but she's still a bit too unruly for that kind of thing.
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