In my case, I don't take suggestions or if taken I often don't oblige to. I don't remember any advice that someone gave me and I obliged after I got ti adulthood.

Yes, when I was a child, I remember how I wanted to be a cricketer but there was one uncle who would often advise that learning cricket and getting into a team required a lot of money. "You can't be nowhere with Cricket." And I not being fron a family of riches obliged and left the idea of becoming a cricketer.