I'm definitely highly functional. I just take things on a very ad hoc basis, rather than a habitual one.
Erm would you attribute this to the after-effects of the trauma you suffered during grad sch? As in, you don’t want to live your life so rigidly/cautiously anymore? Sorry if I’m being presumptuous
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Nope. This is just how I seem to have been wired.
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I’m impressed by how parenting hasn’t changed this inner core!
These days, I live by habits. This, from the guy who could happily arrive at a foreign city, not knowing where he would sleep that night
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