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That’s pretty neat. I mean in that in the most respectful way possible. I heard
It’s tradition to pickup the bones of your loved ones with chop sticks and put them into a ceremonial urn right? I wouldn’t mind having that happen when I pass.

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They usually cremate, then pick up the bones with huge chopsticks.
Put them in an urn and then put it in a box with everyone elses.
At least that is what my family does.
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