TBH, what I have learnt from my little to no experience personally, I don't take LN, or I can't accept it more than it lets me transfer little amounts of Sats to my Bitcoin core wallet.

I do it by sending them first to a CEx and then when I have consolidated a good amount, I transfer all my sats to a self custodial wallet.

Doing this for two years now and never had any problems. For me LN is only this. That's all.

I'm a simple stacker, HODLer of Sats with not much technical knowledge. I'm however very grateful for it but whenever I want to think of using it beyond, I always get to know some drawbacks for individual users. Businesses can use, should use LN full fledged.