We have a weak, effeminate society - worse the further west, in ideology, one ventures. The thing is we can have equality or equity without the emasculation. Honor diversity. Men and women are different. Honor it. We have too many reared in feminine (male or female) dominant attitudes.
It starts and ends with you. What choices do you make? How do you manage your domain? Your relationships? Your home? How do you rear your boys? And girls?