I feel you, for sure, but I think it's just because bitcoin is so new and actually requires learning. Eventually, this stuff will just come second nature to people. Same like you have a supercomputer in your pocket and probably don't think about it much.

I think it's just a matter of finding a balance between wanting to learn, but also realizing you can't learn everything. You can't be a mining expert AND and privacy expert AND a super coder AND a lightning expert etc. Use bitcoin for what you need it for, and enjoy learning about something you think is interesting.