Exactly where I was going. It's a tragedy I can't even think about. I have a friend who calls himself a stoic and we have discussed this. He says that is the one thing he won't even let himself consider. This past week another friend's daughter died suddenly. She was the mother of a one year old child. To compound the suffering, his daughter could have been easily saved but for the incompetence of the first responders. Her death was on videotape from his ring doorbell surveillance camera.