My parents are always complaining about how the town I grew up in (and where none of us currently live) is changing.
I spent so many years mourning the loss of where I grew up, which was in the country, but which changed in what sounds like a similar way to your town. I felt the loss deeply; and yet you can't hold to anything, least of all stuff like that.
It's a hard truth to come to terms with, though.
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Studying economics is what let me be happy for the changes, or rather for the larger number of people who now get to enjoy what only a smaller number used to.
Adapting to change is irritating, but if you have other-regarding preferences, you can accept that sometimes your losses are meaningful gains to others.
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