The well funded Maoist cultivated the idea that gender neutral activity was a positive and that the parents were the enemy of progress.

Hence the cultivation at home was lost to Fiat Independence.

Then don't push people to go to war.
Defund the war mongers.

That’s what the communist in China 🇨🇳 did during WW2. The nationalists were decimated because Mao didn’t help.  The main reason the communists succeeded in 1949. Chinese nationalists fled to Taiwan 🇹🇼 after 1949.  The you first mentality can create worse conditions 